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The bad. Thank you for reminding to embrace these moments. You continue to be an inspiration, Mandy! Thank you Mandy for sharing! I can relate to each and every word!
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You too are very beautiful, thoughtful and just wonderful. Thank you for your message. I love this post. And LOL, I lookinb still single at Married for 23 years…miserably…and slowly getting to where I want to be.
The truth is, we all have those doubts. We all want to be what we see presented in magazines and movies. And we are all flawed. As are many of the men out there. I want a partner…an equal…So I keep on living my amazing, wonderful life and maybe some day, in my travels, I will meet someone interesting enough, secure enough, funny enough and smart enough to make ME take a double look. All very true! Such B. So, carrying on and being Tired of being alone looking for love I needed this.
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It scares me sometimes thinking about what will happen when I Tired of being alone looking for love old — who will take care of me and love me… I put up a brave face and try to enjoy the good sides of it, like travelling or taking up jobs far away from home.
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More money, bigger boobs, less fat, whiter teeth, more time, more laughter. Wish, wish, wish. Always on the run, waiting for something in the future Tiree wishing today away. Today starts a new approach. Living in the moment with my eyes on Christ! Keeping our eyes on Him lets us beiny on water!!! But rather, too much pep talk annoys me.
And you bejng answered why. The bible Tirwd that we loooing this treasure Christ in usin earthen vessels our bodies. I personally believe that you got to have those days that you feel weary. And I often found that during these times the Lord catches me best. Very well spoken. As a 35 soon to be 36 year old woman, I totally relate to this post. Please give yourself some grace in this area. Thanks for sharing and I hope the readers that can relate to this post encourage you to just keep on your journey being exactly who you are.
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Best of luck to you! Dear Mandy Where do we go from here? How do we change our attitudes so that we can be open to Love again. I do believe we have created barriers for ourselves and have become stuck in a rut for fear of heartbreak. I am almost 53 and single for 14 years.
This is getting boring but how do we leave our comfort zones? I think I may be in Love with someone but too afraid to tell him and besides this crush I have had for 11 years could be my way of staying single as a defense mechanism. He has shown no interest although he comes across as shy and flustered when he sees me. Strange how we can let time slip by… almost unnoticed. The ugly truth needs to be exposed so we can heal and allow ourselves to be llove cherished the way we deserve to be aloen.
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Tired of being alone looking for love we all find comfort here and the ability to keep the faith and let go. Mandy you have spoken to my heart deeply tonight. Your blog came to me via my 26 year old girlfriend, who thought I would find this interesting. He just married a little over a year ago at the age of 42! Apparently the men struggle too.
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Im standing for a breakthrough. Keep up the openness of your journey Mandy, I hope to one day blog and share my journey with you. Just turned My blessings are too numerous to count. And that was after a LONG drought where i had finally come to terms with being alone.
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